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Curiosity #81 - Following a Legend

Apr 22, 2026
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🎤 Quotable quotes: “You know what the happiest animal on Earth is? It’s a goldfish."

— Ted Lasso

This week, big news out of Apple.

Tim Cook is stepping down as CEO.
John Ternus is stepping in.

And just like that, one of the most iconic leadership transitions in modern business is happening again.

Because let’s not forget.

Tim Cook once stood exactly where Ternus stands now.

Taking over for a legend.


 

🏟 Why This Matters for You

Taking over after a legend is one of the hardest leadership assignments there is.

The expectations are sky high.
The comparisons are constant.
And the question hangs in the air:

“Can they live up to what came before?”

Here’s the truth.

They’re not supposed to.

That’s where most people get stuck.

Tim Cook didn’t try to be Steve Jobs.
And John Ternus won’t try to be Tim Cook.

Because great leaders don’t copy the past.

They build on it.


🎯 The Ted Lasso Playbook

If you think about it, Ted Lasso is full of this exact dynamic.

Roy taking over as coach after Ted steps back.
Rebecca stepping into ownership after Rupert.
Even Nate, in his own complicated way, trying to define himself outside of someone else’s shadow.

And here’s what the show teaches us:

1. Honor what came before.
Ted respected the history of Richmond. He didn’t ignore it. He built trust by acknowledging it.

2. Don’t try to be the legend.
The moment you try to replicate someone else, you lose what makes you effective.

3. Be curious about your own style.
Ted didn’t coach like anyone else. That was the point. Your difference is your advantage.

4. Build your own version of belief.
The “Believe” sign wasn’t about Ted. It became about the team. That’s how culture evolves.

5. Short memory helps.
That goldfish line? It matters here. If you dwell on comparisons, you never move forward.


🧠 What This Means for You

Most of us won’t take over Apple.

But we all step into roles where something existed before us.

A new job.
A leadership position.
A team with history.

And the instinct is the same:

Measure yourself against the person before you.

But the better question is this:

What does this role need now?

Because leadership is not about preserving a moment.

It’s about meeting the next one.


🏁 Final Thought

Following a legend is not about filling their shoes.

It’s about walking your own path… with respect for the ground they covered.

Tim Cook did it.

Now John Ternus will.

And somewhere, Ted Lasso is smiling and saying:

“Be yourself. That’s plenty.”


— Nick & Marnie
Your tea sipping, next chapter writing, legend following friends

 

More leadership musings


🍪 Biscuits with the Boss: 

Icebreaker time:

Think about a role or situation where you stepped in after someone else.

Did you try to match them, or define yourself?

Bonus question:
What would it look like to lead that situation more like you?


🌎 This week in Here - There - Every F’ing where 

This week Marnie had the opportunity to hear Mark Perna (author of Answering Why). He shared lots of stats. The ones you see here are the ones that drove us to write The Business of You and build Blue.

Believe! 

Nick & Marnie

 


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